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charlie | if your wife/gf is talking to her ex? Behind your back...about the two of you...and you find out through a sheer coincidence...?? Guess women can answer this too Not really looking for a lengthy answer. Yes/No will suffice. |
DopGang | Not Ok. |
aquaguy91 | No. But then again I wouldn't be OK with my woman having guy friends that aren't gay. |
Wondering | No, she doesn't need to talk to her ex. That's what girl friends or family is for. |
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Randall | She knew it was wrong, or else she wouldn't have kept it hidden. Not okay. |
Soltze | NO, NO and NO. Don't even let her manipulate you into thinking that's ok and that you're imagining stuff. I've been in that movie and it ain't pretty.Sorry for the long answer. But this resonates with my personal past. |
12muddy | Talking to ex(s) isn't an issue, to me. The thing that catches my attention here is the "behind his back". It leads me to think that there are problems with mismatch values and/or trust. So in this case, I'd give a "No". |
CosmiqPhuz | If it was me, I wouldn't put up with it |
Soltze | quote: Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz: If it was me, I wouldn't put up with it
Bravo! Talking s*** with an ex about current relationship can wind up in "you know what". It takes a firm attitude to solve the issue before it grows into something bad. Just sayin'. |
DopGang | quote: Originally posted by Soltze: Bravo! Talking s*** with an ex about current relationship can wind up in "you know what". It takes a firm attitude to solve the issue before it grows into something bad. Just sayin'.
I actually see it as a deliberate attempt to reform a bond with the ex. It's the whole opening up your private/intimate side and yadda yadda. Actually turning to others to discuss the relationship with someone else without the "other half's" knowledge is a warning sign. They should be able to, and should try to work out issues themselves I would think. Otherwise turn to someone they both trust and both can talk to. That's just my opinion. Even if it's not an ex. It doesn't seem good at all. |
bansheequeen | Agree with everyone else! |
ReadingTheStars95 | Personally, I would be relatively OK with a girlfriend (or, any gender for that matter..) talking to an ex.. However, first, behind my back? No. Second, Behind my back about OUR relationship? Definitely not. |
ReadingTheStars95 | quote: Originally posted by 12muddy: Talking to ex(s) isn't an issue, to me.The thing that catches my attention here is the "behind his back". It leads me to think that there are problems with mismatch values and/or trust. So in this case, I'd give a "No".
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Randall | The nays have it. |
Peluches | Yes. Because ... I believe there'd be a genuine reason for that. |
Sibyl | I think this depends on the level of jealousy in your partner. If you have an overly jealous partner it may not be that you're actually doing anything wrong when talking to your ex, but that you get undue grief concerning innocent connections. It would be a good reason not to share, and would mean lack of sharing is not entirely the person's fault (but also the fault of the jealous partner). |